As a man, you gotta love women who know they are sexy and aren’t afraid to let the world know it. It's a major reason why we love women and what get's our attention at first site. And once they have our attention, then we can get to know them. If we like them not just physically, but personally as well, then we see them again. If they like us, it's a beauty in the male-female relationship.
We get each others attention with our eyes. "Hum I think I’m attracted to that person, I would like to meet them". And if you discover you like them personally as well and they like you, then you go out with them and you continue to see each other. As long as you get along and find each other interesting. But it's the physical attraction that get's our attention first, it's really that simple.
Some might say that's superficial, others like myself believe that's just honest and truthful. If you see an unattractive women or man in a bar, restaurant, club or whatever, your first instinct, unless there’s a financial motivation involved, generally won’t be to walk up to them and get to know that person. Generally speaking, that's just being honest and truthful.
It's people's eyes that draws their attention to other people in public. Especially at bars, restaurants and clubs. And sexy women and men know this, which is why they’ll look and dress in a certain way to get people to notice them. And when they have our attention, we'll approach them if we believe they are single and approachable, generally. And we take both take it from there.